BDSM

The myth is that it’s abusive and weird—whips and chains! Actually it’s about trust. When trust trumps the possibility of harm, the result can feel incredibly intimate and erotic.

There are several terms for BDSM: power-play or domination-submission (D/s) because one lover has control over the other, at least nominally; sado-masochism (SM), which involves spanking, flogging or other types of intense sensation; and bondage and discipline (BD), which involves restraint. But the current term is BDSM.

Many people consider BDSM perverted, dehumanizing, or worse. But aficionados call it the most loving, nurturing, intimate form of human contact and play. People can have sex without conversation, negotiation, or any emotional connection. But in BDSM, the players always arrange things in advance with clear, intimate communication, which creates a special erotic bond.

– METHODS –

IMPACT PLAY (OTK, WHIP, CANE, ETC)

BEATING MASOCHISTS, SHY GUYS, SELF PROCLAIMED ALPHA MALES

ROPE BONDAGE

LEATHER BONDAGE

SENSORY DEPRIVATION

TEASE AND DENIAL

NIPPLE TORTURE

TRAMPLING

HOT WAX

ICE PLAY

FIN DOM

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